Starbound Missmatch assets in multiplayer

Hello !

I have this bug:
I play in semi-multi (a friend invite me to his game by steam. I join by the overlay steam and it's impossible to join by the server adress as it's not a server)
After a while, I get a "exception caught in client main-loop (Assets exception) novaglow animation". This eject me from the game. Enabling the "accept missmatch assets" worked for a time, then no more.
Now, the game crashes when I try to enter, and it makes the game of my friend crash too.

-I didn't have any mods when it began, and I just "installed" the french translation.
-I don't know what novaglow is, and I can't find it in the assets library.
-I installed/reinstalled,
-checked the files by steam
and I can't find any other occurences about my problem
I don't really what to do next, I tried enabling/disabling some stuff but no results...
Thanks for your help !