Closed Getting lagged out and disconnected

Ever since Pleased Giraffe, It's been impossible playing multiplayer with my friends (it was simple before). My friend hosts a regular server without hamachi or evolve, i join, everything's alright for exactly 5 seconds then i can't do anything but walk and jump around, can't even use chat and then it disconnects me saying "disconnected due to inactivity" or "client server connection no longer valid".

Trying it on all the different launch options or running directly from the executables does not work, all the normal solutions seem to not work as well.

My mods include the avali race mod, songbook extender, frackin universe and greebles (but it does the same with or without mods anyway).

 

Bump. I have the same problem as you describe except I am connecting to a Hamachi server and with no mods.