Chat Tell Us Your Troubles Thread - advice & friendly chats

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by BloodyFingers, Oct 22, 2013.

  1. BigEaredKittens

    BigEaredKittens Jackpot!

    Yes yes, judgement after death and concept of hell don't exist, are foreign, they are not worry. Oblivion not much either, I imagine someone who's dead doesn't care if they exist or not.

    Suicidal depression is something I've had for quite a long time, tho talking about it does make me feel like a nuiscance. Not intending to cause alarm tho, moreso just ot have a grumble to release some stress and frustration.
     
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  2. Bonabopn

    Bonabopn Fluffiest Squirrel

    nobody is a burden on society, the entire point of society is so the weak do not have to die.

    i think suicide is bad because once you do it you won't get any more ice cream for the rest of forever. ice cream is definitely good enough to stay alive for! c:
     
  3. BigEaredKittens

    BigEaredKittens Jackpot!

    ...

    Mint icecream is pretty good.
     
  4. That's right; words of wisdom.
    Burden in society are wars and desire for money, not life of humans and animals. Sadly, people doesn't see that clearly because of depression, sadness or other psychological issues. Such people feel they help the society, if they kill themselfs, but they are wrong.
     
  5. Pangaea

    Pangaea Scruffy Nerf-Herder

    Unfortunately, knowing this does very little to change how one feels. In fact, knowing you "shouldn't" feel like that only makes the guilt worse, to my experience.
     
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  6. BloodyFingers

    BloodyFingers The End of Time

    Again, "not caring" is only possible if you exist. No livibg human is capable of conceiving how not existing is because our reality consists of chemical reactions produced by a functioning organism and processed by a living brain. When you lose that, well... all I can say for sure is that you won't feel good about it.
     
  7. Pangaea

    Pangaea Scruffy Nerf-Herder

    I don't think the point is to feel "good" so much as to not feel "bad" (or to feel anything). This is what makes it so tantalising. It's a means to end the onslaught of negative feelings, such as despair, that other methods (like drinking alcohol) only temporarily relieve. This is where the difficulty lies. It's a "guaranteed" solution. The surrounding negative feelings become so overwhelming that any solution is desirable, especially if there's some permanence to it. It's pretty hard to see or think that things could possibly get better so one thinks it's better to end it so it doesn't get worse. It really can be a struggle and is certainly different for each person. I'm just speaking in very general terms.

    To clarify, I'm not condoning suicide. Merely expressing some of the thought processes around it.
     
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  8. BloodyFingers

    BloodyFingers The End of Time

    But not feeling bad anymore is a relief, which IS a good feeling. Simply put, your brain can't 'not feel anything'. Even numbness is a feeling. Your brain also process the absence of input and gives your senses a response. Phantom limb, for example, is your brain telling you your limb is no longer there.
     
  9. Pangaea

    Pangaea Scruffy Nerf-Herder

    Well, I'm not necessarily disagreeing with you. But when a person is in that low place, they're not exactly thinking rationally. They're not considering such things and simply looking for an escape.
     
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  10. The Purple Dragon

    The Purple Dragon Big Damn Hero

    To simply say now, If you are strong enough to kill yourself, you are certainly strong enough to not do so.
     
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  11. BigEaredKittens

    BigEaredKittens Jackpot!

    Just don't make a big mess. It's so inconvienent to have to step over mutilated bodies on my bike path. Pssh, people have no consideration for others.

    Blood all over the place. Look at that, I gotta spray down my wheels now!
     
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  12. PyreStarite

    PyreStarite Pangalactic Porcupine

    I planned on making a few videos to give better coverage of my workshop items as well as a few lps for da laffs. I purchased Fraps back before Dxtory was popular and then I put it down for seemingly indefinitely. I kept hearing that Fraps was bad, with issues like file corruption and random recording stopping, and Dxtory was way better. Is Fraps any good anymore for casual video creation? Or do I need to hook up with something newer? Oh, I also still have Corel VideoStudio Pro X5.
     
  13. Alexander Hamilton

    Alexander Hamilton Orbital Explorer

    I have a problem,

    I am suicidal, and have been that way sense I was 7. I have slit my arms and one of my legs. I have a scars the length and width of a pencil on my left knee. My family hates me, and my ex girlfriend wrote the rudest poem ever. I have ate glass twice. And... I have a scar the size of half a pencil over my heart. Ow also I have a 52% chance to get cancer.

    I need help
     
  14. BloodyFingers

    BloodyFingers The End of Time

    First and foremost, welcome. I know sharing your intimate problems with strangers is not easy, so at the very least you have recognised that and made a bold decision.

    Now, you are right in that last sentence. You need help. Sadly that help can't be provided by anyone here, and it pains me to say so. If it is ok with you, would you mind sharing what makes you behave that way?
     
  15. Alexander Hamilton

    Alexander Hamilton Orbital Explorer

    My mom has cancer, my uncle committed suicide, one of my grandfather died the week after my birthday, my grandma stopped her treatment because she did not want to live of machines (I was there), and my family hates me.
     
  16. BloodyFingers

    BloodyFingers The End of Time

    Your family hates you? What makes you say that?
     
  17. Alexander Hamilton

    Alexander Hamilton Orbital Explorer

    My parents did not want me.
     
  18. BloodyFingers

    BloodyFingers The End of Time

    what a coincidence: I am the product of a rape. Nevertheless they don't really hate me. At least they don't wish I'd die anyways.
     
  19. Alexander Hamilton

    Alexander Hamilton Orbital Explorer

    Yeah, my parents only wanted two kids, and they got that. Then a man rapped my mom when she was pregnant with my sister

    So one and a half years later, here I am
    My parents say I was theirs but I'm the only ginger out of my whole, whole family
     
  20. Pangaea

    Pangaea Scruffy Nerf-Herder

    My mum didn't want any children. That doesn't mean she hates me.
     

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