Bug/Issue The problem with the cooperative

There was a problem with the co-op. When choosing a joint game item, I have only a choice of a game by Lan. No tabs go by invitation code. In the multiplayer settings there is only the choice of online or offline. While my husband has both offline and invited and only friends. And he cannot invite me to the game directly, and I’ve played him though before that, we played together and our farm was saved. Help me what to do?
P.S.
Reinstalled the game, did not help