Chat Tell Us Your Troubles Thread - advice & friendly chats

I was actually considering New Zealand. Main language is English, so I don't have to worry too much about learning another. I haven't done a hell of a lot of research, though, so I may change my mind.
My first thought was Denmark, actually. I still think it'd be a viable option if I decide against NZ.

 

I don't really want to elaborate on it, but this seems the best place to ask.

How do you define family?

 

I would say...
1. A group of living creatures that are all tied together through positive emotion.
Or is that not the definition you were looking for?

 

More or less I supposes, I'm really just trying to figure out my own definition of it based on many others I've heard.

 

Well, it could also be:
2. A group of living creatures that live in the same area and/or building.
3. A classification of a single living creature's ancestry.

EDIT: None of these are from the dictionary, I grabbed these from my memories and made them coherent.

 

Umm, hey, what's up? What'd I miss?

Okay, honestly though, I'm still a bit in the dark about a lot of what happened myself. I had to leave an hour after the banning for college Orientation (by the way... it sucked... It's full of Black Racists, seriously, they don't want ANYTHING to do with me cause I'm white).
What happened was rather unusual. I wasn't given any warning and before I could even say anything else I was personally banned by Tiy himself for who-knows how long. I leave for Orientation, come back, and it's like nothing ever happened. I don't have any marks on my account, nothing, only 30+ inbox notifications but that's it.

I only ever had 1 point struck onto me in the very early stages of the forums, and it was because I was losing my cool on another fellow forum member, which was entirely my fault and I regret for becoming so angry at another. However, that was far over a year ago and Molly told me that the point was removed. So points "building up" was impossible.

But regardless of whether or not Tiy is censoring people or he can't take some tips from Omni (I honestly can't see any other reason than those 2), I think I may stay away from the forums... Tiy should not be working Chucklefish's Public Relationships...

To me, people you can love no matter what.

There's some people I know almost everything about, and yet I don't become bored of them.

 

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/family

I am not saying family is the end all be all you could have a healthier environment with your friends then your family. But I personally stick with the dictionary.

 

I said this before, but... I think (I can't tell if it was Tiy or Omni, whoever went on the banning spree) one of those two banned himself and took away his own forum mod powers because he let their emotions get to him. So uh, I wouldn't worry too much. If you were unbanned as if nothing ever happened, then that must mean you were part of the banning spree.
Remember, he took his own mod powers away because of this.

 

It was Omni.

Besides, I'm still leaning on the censor side since the whole Bartwe leaving thing wasn't made news, and yet puppies is news worthy. Tiy's actions are very questionable lately and I've supported the guy since the forums opened up.

When I got ticked off at that other forum member, Molly talked with me, gave me a warning, and things got better. I guess you can say I don't have the "right" to tell someone how to do their job..., or rather which job they shouldn't be messing around in, but I think Tiy should leave Public Relationships to Molly.

Besides, Tiy made me feel very uncomfortable here. Before this forum was more about the community, and as time went on, it became more of Tiy's forum. I recall the earlier moderators were suggested by the community, and as time went on, the developers brought in others who were never a part of the community. I'm not saying the newer guys can't do the job, but it doesn't feel like "home" anymore, if that makes any sense.

 

Oh, uhh. I think I found the website of the game Bartwe left to make. Which was, surprisingly, rather difficult.

 

Denmark's quite okay
Though, it isn't perfect here either. Better than most places, but I think Sweden would be better? Also, danish is really far from English
EDIT: Double "though"'s lol

 

Today. I did a thing.
I showered, got dressed, shaved, combed my hair (SCREW YOU HAIR), went shopping with my support worker, and then made shepherd's pie with my support worker.
Now i am very tired. :c
Being normal is tiring!

 

Have a floofy fox

 

Agh, this is bad. I hope I'm not developing BPD. I don't need any more problems in my life!

 

Well, you can still live with BPD. Works for me at least ;D
(If we mean the same BPD now).
Jokes aside, whats wrong?

 

Part of the problem is that I'm taking estrogen, which is known to mess with or simulate symptoms of BPD. I may not ever know. It may never happen, or it may become very real.

 

May i ask why you take this? (just curious)
If it was to simulate the symptoms, wouldnt "not taking it" reduce these symptoms?
(again, just curious)
Didnt know theres actually stuff that can do this.. oO

 

No, it's just a side effect. It's a tad personal, and I don't want to openly state it in this thread again now that it's gotten more attention than before.

 

I have something on my chest I need to get off.. these round things, why are they here?! Everyone keeps staring!! helppls.

 

I was serious. >