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Type - A accidental tulpa.
He just forgot a space.

 

Interesting!
My tulpa is a female human around my age (Originaly just a glowing sphere of light. She got to create her own form and personality.)
Her name was picked by me though, "Elaine Vermell". Kudoz to a certain person on the forum wich suggested that last name.

Suprisingly enough she was fully sentient after two days of forcing, as well as almost fully imposed. I might actuly be insane.
She's been around for about two months now. Talks a lot, Is quite friendly, Knows when to be serious with me if I do something stupid.
She used to be in my imagination/visualised world in my imagination but recently she's almost always in the real world.

 

Oh, sorry. There's another forum about this that has a system for identifying accidental tulpae. It's a previous thoughtform that becomes a tulpa subconsciously.

Imposed in two days? And a true imposition at that?

That is mind-numbing. I have no idea how anybody would be able to do that in so little time.

 

I have no idea either.
I had the idea in my head for a long time but I only spent two days forcing before she showed up.
From what she told me she found the form and apperance in my memories and had an easy time getting imposed.

 

Imposition has very little to do with the creation of the actual form, though. It's the memorization of the shape, feeling, smell, physical properties, etc. so that it can be realistically superimposed over reality. I have no idea how someone could do it in only two days; especially not having created the form themselves.

 

Okay, sorry if I'm being a bit annoying with the questions, but I keep seeing the verb "force" used with a definition I am unfamiliar with. Could you please explain?

 

If the Tulpas need therapy, or would like to discuss other tulpa related issues, perhaps making a new thread is in order?

 

Great insanity I guess.

Forcing is basicly meditating. It involves blocking most other senses to focus on creating the tulpa in your imagination.

A tulpa thread could be fun.
I decided to bring it up because it has some links to psychology.

 

I have no experience with these Tulpas and I would be interested to see into the psyche of them.
Anyone want to make a separate thread for them? I would like to join and learn more about it.

 

Well i'm hardly an expert on the matter and considering the fact that making a tulpa "For fun" or "to make your waifu" is absolutely ridiculus I don't want to encourage people to make tulpas wich might try that.

 

If people do not know what they are doing exactly, or what you guys are even talking about I hardly doubt anyone will even attempt it.
I do not plan on attempting it myself. I am completely interested in the psychology and the experiences from it.

 

Well that's good.
It is one of those things that wont really work if you try, rather it has to be almost accidental.

 

I didn't sleep well last night, I kept thinking about whats happened and how messed up it is. I've actually tried singing myself to sleep but my brain won't let me forget.

 

I have a long distance relationship which is (really I was surprised too) working perfectly.
We're together for 5 months already and met up 4 times. Cause I'm not working, he's visiting me.
And now he left about 7 hours ago. I always am in a state of depression after he does this.
I've grown up without a father and he's giving me the feeling of safety I seek so much.

Please, those are no daddy issues or anything of this kind.
I just miss the feeling of being safe and sound.. I'm a huge hug person but no one in my family is one too.

I know, there are much bigger an worse problems than that, but it's just like a huge part of my heart missing.

 

Any tips for reduce your stress and calm yourself down when you start to feel overflown with work and the such. I really feel that I could have needed it today.

 

If you start getting stressed then a lot ofthings might start piling up.
Random annyances like sounds,itches and intrusive thoughts become unbereable.
Try to remain focused on something, perhaps use music to calm yourselves or stay focused?

 

I'm currently in a state with my student project where I (to a big extent) have to fix one thing at a time in order to move forward.
So I'll think I'll try some calm music if it happens again.

 

I recommend listening to music, mostly slow acoustic, or anything with a relaxing melody. (For me it is Silly Wizard)
For me it was around a month or two for me to shrug off heart break. Surround yourself with friends and make new ones through games or other media. Best of luck.

I recommend taking some time to spend with friends playing games. Also if you spend alot of time on the computer look up a white noise maker. http://www.rainymood.com/ is a good one.
Also make sure you are getting enough sleep, if you can't sleep I recommend melatonin. It is a natural chemical you body produces for relaxation and sleep.
Also make sure you are managing your stressers and work. If you can't do it at the moment make a list of them and keep it somewhere and when you finish it, but a line through it.
Some stress comes with loss of control and disorganization. If you get your duck in a row you can easily know what to deal with.
This is coming from myself who has major anxiety problems, migraines, and panic attacks.

 

I know exactly what you mean, and I can relate. My family is dysfunctional and this extends to never having a proper, loving father.
I am in a relationship with a guy and can't pin him down as a boyfriend or a lover... I simply feel much less fragile around him and I couldn't possibly bear his absence.

 

It is really good to know that I'm not the only person addicted to someone else, in a good kind of way.
It doesn't matter really how you are standing to someone, when you feel comfortable, safe around someone.. there's no better feeling.

Hope you're okay