Steam Multiplayer Causes unbearable lag (Starbound)

So I bought this game today to play with my friend and when I launch the game it's fine, but as soon as I get into game it starts lagging with 7-9 fps. I tried to figure out the problem, which turned out to be the Enable Steam Multiplayer option. So I turned that off and I am now getting 60 fps, but I still cant play with my friend. And Im not downloading Hamachi or something else, because this option in game should actually work.

I have a
Nvidia GTX 1070
24GB of RAM
Intel i5 4690k

Log Files

[13:588.846] [Info] Root: Preparing Root...
[13:588.846] [Info] Root: Done preparing Root.
[13:588.846] [Info] Client Version 1.2.1 (windows x86_64) Source I f15286d545debbcdb4e5e73680a1805ad29308da Protocol: 729
[13:588.846] [Info] Root: Scanning for asset sources in directory '..\assets\'
[13:589.119] [Info] Root: Scanning for asset sources in directory '..\mods\'
[13:589.119] [Warn] Root: Unrecognized file in asset directory 'mods_go_here', skipping
[13:589.119] [Info] Root: Detected asset source named 'base' at '..\assets\packed.pak'
[13:589.119] [Info] Root: Detected unnamed asset source at '..\assets\user'
[13:589.119] [Info] Loading assets from: '..\assets\packed.pak'
[13:589.461] [Info] Loading assets from: '..\assets\user'
[13:58:40.145] [Info] Assets digest is e50bdbcb21170ac0da24ea03ce5b2963dd8fa65b8235e02ee1cae9b08cdc3bd6
[13:58:40.145] [Info] Root: Loaded Assets in 1.29867 seconds
[13:58:40.148] [Info] Application: Initializing SDL Video
[13:58:40.165] [Info] Application: Initializing SDL Joystick
[13:58:40.204] [Info] Application: Initializing SDL Sound
[13:58:40.416] [Info] Failed to initialize Steam platform services
[13:58:40.416] [Info] Application: No platform services available
[13:58:40.416] [Info] Application: Creating SDL Window
[13:58:40.855] [Info] Application: Enabling VSync with late swap tearing
[13:58:40.873] [Info] Application: Opened default audio device with 44.1khz / 16 bit stereo audio, 2048 sample size buffer
[13:58:40.880] [Info] OpenGL version: '4.5.0 NVIDIA 376.33' vendor: 'NVIDIA Corporation' renderer: 'GeForce GTX 1070/PCIe/SSE2' shader: '4.50 NVIDIA'
[13:58:40.884] [Info] Application: initialization...
[13:58:40.886] [Info] Root: Loaded Configuration in 0.00103542 seconds
[13:58:40.888] [Info] Application: renderer initialization...
[13:58:40.888] [Info] detected supported OpenGL texture size 32768, using atlasNumCells 128
[13:58:40.889] [Info] detected supported OpenGL texture size 32768, using atlasNumCells 64
[13:58:40.890] [Info] Root: Loaded ImageMetadataDatabase in 4.38985e-06 seconds
[13:58:40.905] [Info] Application: main update loop...
[13:58:40.923] [Info] Root: Loaded NameGenerator in 0.016665 seconds
[13:58:40.935] [Error] OpenGL errors this frame: GL_INVALID_VALUE
[13:58:41.004] [Info] Root: Loaded PlantDatabase in 0.0809219 seconds
[13:58:41.334] [Info] Root: Loaded ObjectDatabase in 0.427894 seconds
[13:58:41.521] [Info] Root: Loaded ProjectileDatabase in 0.516762 seconds
[13:58:41.662] [Info] Root: Loaded NpcDatabase in 0.140941 seconds
[13:58:41.664] [Info] Root: Loaded StagehandDatabase in 0.00178989 seconds
[13:58:41.667] [Info] Root: Loaded MonsterDatabase in 0.332668 seconds
[13:58:41.740] [Info] Root: Loaded VehicleDatabase in 0.0762639 seconds
[13:58:41.757] [Info] Root: Loaded PlayerFactory in 0.0896524 seconds
[13:58:41.818] [Info] Root: Loaded VersioningDatabase in 0.0612182 seconds
[13:58:41.818] [Info] Root: Loaded EntityFactory in 0.0781349 seconds
[13:58:42.035] [Info] Root: Loaded ParticleDatabase in 0.216971 seconds
[13:58:42.328] [Info] Root: Loaded MaterialDatabase in 0.509421 seconds
[13:58:42.372] [Info] Root: Loaded TerrainDatabase in 0.0439734 seconds
[13:58:42.547] [Info] Root: Loaded BiomeDatabase in 0.175646 seconds
[13:58:42.548] [Info] Root: Loaded LiquidsDatabase in 0.000757688 seconds
[13:58:42.649] [Info] Root: Loaded StatusEffectDatabase in 0.100387 seconds
[13:58:43.010] [Info] Root: Loaded DamageDatabase in 0.361437 seconds
[13:58:43.028] [Info] Root: Loaded EffectSourceDatabase in 0.0178087 seconds
[13:58:43.032] [Info] Root: Loaded FunctionDatabase in 0.00341764 seconds
[13:58:43.160] [Info] Root: Loaded TreasureDatabase in 0.128465 seconds
[13:58:43.881] [Info] Root: Writing runtime configuration to '..\storage\starbound.config'
[13:58:44.230] [Info] Root: Loaded DungeonDefinitions in 1.06925 seconds
[13:58:44.248] [Info] Root: Loaded TilesetDatabase in 0.018855 seconds
[13:58:44.308] [Info] Root: Loaded StatisticsDatabase in 0.0597537 seconds
[13:58:44.339] [Info] Root: Loaded EmoteProcessor in 0.0309364 seconds
[13:58:44.442] [Info] Root: Loaded SpeciesDatabase in 0.103055 seconds
[13:58:44.514] [Info] Root: Loaded QuestTemplateDatabase in 0.0711 seconds
[13:58:44.547] [Info] Root: Loaded AiDatabase in 0.0335036 seconds
[13:58:44.570] [Info] Root: Loaded TechDatabase in 0.0228588 seconds
[13:58:44.629] [Info] Root: Loaded CodexDatabase in 0.0590329 seconds
[13:58:44.999] [Info] Root: Loaded BehaviorDatabase in 0.369604 seconds
[13:58:45.033] [Info] Root: Loaded DanceDatabase in 0.0344091 seconds
[13:58:45.038] [Info] Root: Loaded SpawnTypeDatabase in 0.00445862 seconds
[13:58:45.040] [Info] Root: Loaded RadioMessageDatabase in 0.00240476 seconds
[13:58:46.893] [Info] Root: Loaded ItemDatabase in 5.1357 seconds
[13:58:47.028] [Info] Root: Loaded CollectionDatabase in 1.98791 seconds
[13:58:47.750] [Info] detected supported OpenGL texture size 32768, using atlasNumCells 256
[13:58:53.798] [Info] Application: quit requested
[13:58:53.798] [Info] Application: quitting...
[13:58:53.798] [Info] Application: shutdown...
[13:58:53.920] [Info] Root: Shutting down Root
[13:58:54.158] [Info] Application: Destroying SDL Window
[13:58:54.172] [Info] Application: stopped gracefully

Second Log File

[12:55:13.411] [Info] Root: Preparing Root...
[12:55:13.412] [Info] Root: Done preparing Root.
[12:55:13.412] [Info] Client Version 1.2.1 (windows x86_64) Source I f15286d545debbcdb4e5e73680a1805ad29308da Protocol: 729
[12:55:13.412] [Info] Root: Scanning for asset sources in directory '..\assets\'
[12:55:13.706] [Info] Root: Scanning for asset sources in directory '..\mods\'
[12:55:13.707] [Warn] Root: Unrecognized file in asset directory 'mods_go_here', skipping
[12:55:13.707] [Info] Root: Detected asset source named 'base' at '..\assets\packed.pak'
[12:55:13.707] [Info] Root: Detected unnamed asset source at '..\assets\user'
[12:55:13.707] [Info] Loading assets from: '..\assets\packed.pak'
[12:55:14.076] [Info] Loading assets from: '..\assets\user'
[12:55:14.768] [Info] Assets digest is e50bdbcb21170ac0da24ea03ce5b2963dd8fa65b8235e02ee1cae9b08cdc3bd6
[12:55:14.768] [Info] Root: Loaded Assets in 1.35564 seconds
[12:55:14.771] [Info] Application: Initializing SDL Video
[12:55:14.789] [Info] Application: Initializing SDL Joystick
[12:55:15.191] [Info] Application: Initializing SDL Sound
[12:55:15.276] [Info] Initialized Steam services
[12:55:15.278] [Info] Application: Creating SDL Window
[12:55:15.743] [Info] Application: Enabling VSync with late swap tearing
[12:55:15.758] [Info] Application: Opened default audio device with 44.1khz / 16 bit stereo audio, 2048 sample size buffer
[12:55:15.766] [Info] OpenGL version: '4.5.0 NVIDIA 376.33' vendor: 'NVIDIA Corporation' renderer: 'GeForce GTX 1070/PCIe/SSE2' shader: '4.50 NVIDIA'
[12:55:15.770] [Info] Application: initialization...
[12:55:15.770] [Info] Root: no runtime config file, creating new default runtime config
[12:55:15.770] [Info] Root: Loaded Configuration in 0.000149547 seconds
[12:55:15.772] [Info] Application: renderer initialization...
[12:55:15.774] [Info] detected supported OpenGL texture size 32768, using atlasNumCells 128
[12:55:15.775] [Info] detected supported OpenGL texture size 32768, using atlasNumCells 64
[12:55:15.776] [Info] Root: Loaded ImageMetadataDatabase in 7.02374e-06 seconds
[12:55:15.790] [Info] Application: main update loop...
[12:55:15.879] [Info] No subscribed user generated content
[12:55:15.892] [Info] Root: Loaded NameGenerator in 0.0125131 seconds
[12:55:15.907] [Error] OpenGL errors this frame: GL_INVALID_VALUE
[12:55:15.966] [Info] Root: Loaded PlantDatabase in 0.0747544 seconds
[12:55:16.147] [Info] Root: Loaded ObjectDatabase in 0.267727 seconds
[12:55:16.251] [Info] Root: Loaded ProjectileDatabase in 0.284505 seconds
[12:55:16.294] [Info] Root: Loaded MonsterDatabase in 0.147279 seconds
[12:55:16.295] [Info] Root: Loaded StagehandDatabase in 0.00103366 seconds
[12:55:16.297] [Info] Root: Loaded NpcDatabase in 0.0464358 seconds
[12:55:16.298] [Info] Root: Loaded VehicleDatabase in 0.00231404 seconds
[12:55:16.299] [Info] Root: Loaded PlayerFactory in 0.00199592 seconds
[12:55:16.300] [Info] Root: Loaded VersioningDatabase in 0.000984204 seconds
[12:55:16.300] [Info] Root: Loaded EntityFactory in 0.00291808 seconds
[12:55:16.326] [Info] Root: Loaded ParticleDatabase in 0.0257649 seconds
[12:55:16.504] [Info] Root: Loaded MaterialDatabase in 0.204125 seconds
[12:55:16.507] [Info] Root: Loaded TerrainDatabase in 0.00295495 seconds
[12:55:16.538] [Info] Root: Loaded BiomeDatabase in 0.0298229 seconds
[12:55:16.539] [Info] Root: Loaded LiquidsDatabase in 0.000808317 seconds
[12:55:16.543] [Info] Root: Loaded StatusEffectDatabase in 0.00413933 seconds
[12:55:16.741] [Info] Root: Loaded DamageDatabase in 0.198445 seconds
[12:55:16.745] [Info] Root: Loaded EffectSourceDatabase in 0.00408753 seconds
[12:55:16.747] [Info] Root: Loaded FunctionDatabase in 0.00233803 seconds
[12:55:16.762] [Info] Root: Loaded TreasureDatabase in 0.014672 seconds
[12:55:16.936] [Info] Root: Loaded DungeonDefinitions in 0.173558 seconds
[12:55:16.936] [Info] Root: Loaded TilesetDatabase in 5.15076e-05 seconds
[12:55:16.938] [Info] Root: Loaded StatisticsDatabase in 0.00182296 seconds
[12:55:16.938] [Info] Root: Loaded EmoteProcessor in 6.35065e-05 seconds
[12:55:16.945] [Info] Root: Loaded SpeciesDatabase in 0.00647707 seconds
[12:55:16.965] [Info] Root: Loaded QuestTemplateDatabase in 0.020205 seconds
[12:55:16.966] [Info] Root: Loaded AiDatabase in 0.00114429 seconds
[12:55:16.967] [Info] Root: Loaded TechDatabase in 0.000988008 seconds
[12:55:16.975] [Info] Root: Loaded CodexDatabase in 0.00751308 seconds
[12:55:17.212] [Info] Root: Loaded BehaviorDatabase in 0.237529 seconds
[12:55:17.214] [Info] Root: Loaded DanceDatabase in 0.00187768 seconds
[12:55:17.218] [Info] Root: Loaded SpawnTypeDatabase in 0.00420723 seconds
[12:55:17.220] [Info] Root: Loaded RadioMessageDatabase in 0.00185866 seconds
[12:55:18.437] [Info] Root: Loaded ItemDatabase in 2.13742 seconds
[12:55:18.567] [Info] Root: Loaded CollectionDatabase in 1.34631 seconds
[12:55:18.660] [Info] Creating player storage directory
[12:55:18.844] [Info] detected supported OpenGL texture size 32768, using atlasNumCells 256
[12:55:19.770] [Info] Root: Writing runtime configuration to '..\storage\starbound.config'
[12:550.619] [Info] UniverseServer: Creating universe storage directory
[12:550.620] [Info] UniverseServer: Acquiring universe lock file
[12:550.700] [Info] UniverseServer: Loading settings
[12:550.702] [Info] UniverseServer: Starting UniverseServer with UUI 7e066249d056ae651f081ac7de2a04ba
[12:550.707] [Info] UniverseServer: Logged in player 'Milka' locally
[12:550.707] [Info] UniverseServer: Logged in account '<anonymous>' as player 'Milka' from address local
[12:550.711] [Info] UniverseServer: Spawning player in intro instance protectorate
[12:550.711] [Info] UniverseServer: Client 'Milka' <1> (local) connected
[12:550.718] [Info] UniverseClient: Joined server as client 1
[12:550.808] [Info] UniverseServer: Creating new client ship world ClientShipWorld77ff7b2ee9ea9b85147415eeef243a0
[12:550.910] [Info] UniverseServer: Creating temporary world file for world InstanceWorldrotectorate77ff7b2ee9ea9b85147415eeef243a0:-
[12:550.910] [Info] UniverseServer: Creating temporary instance world 'InstanceWorldrotectorate77ff7b2ee9ea9b85147415eeef243a0:-'
[12:550.925] [Info] Placing dungeon protectorate
[12:550.955] [Info] detected supported OpenGL texture size 32768, using atlasNumCells 64
[12:550.961] [Info] detected supported OpenGL texture size 32768, using atlasNumCells 128
[12:550.978] [Info] detected supported OpenGL texture size 32768, using atlasNumCells 256
[12:550.978] [Info] detected supported OpenGL texture size 32768, using atlasNumCells 256
[12:551.025] [Info] Setting steam rich presence connection as steam id 76561198041803810
[12:551.180] [Info] Forcing generation of dungeon protectorate
[12:551.197] [Info] Placing dungeon at (0, 1000)
[12:551.363] [Info] UniverseServer: Flying player 1 ship to starter world
[12:551.367] [Info] Searching for new randomized starter world
[12:551.367] [Info] UniverseServer: Stopping idle world ClientShipWorld77ff7b2ee9ea9b85147415eeef243a0
[12:554.898] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: protectoratesmokegen direction: 1 position: (687, 801)
[12:554.898] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: protectoratesmokegen direction: 1 position: (717, 801)
[12:554.900] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: protectoratefbannertorn1 direction: 1 position: (725, 802)
[12:555.016] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: protectoratesmokegen direction: 1 position: (703, 826)
[12:555.016] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: protectoratesmokegen direction: 1 position: (703, 827)
[12:555.019] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: protectoratesmokegen direction: 1 position: (700, 828)
[12:555.344] [Info] UniverseServer: Found randomized starter world at 305559742:808168916:-153016981:5
[12:555.412] [Info] UniverseServer: Creating celestial world 305559742:808168916:-153016981:5
[12:555.687] [Info] Placing dungeon naturalcave
[12:555.735] [Info] Generating dungeon naturalcave
[12:555.736] [Info] Placing dungeon at (2104, 675)
[12:556.049] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: prisongirderv direction: 1 position: (2498, 505)
[12:556.054] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: prisongirderv direction: 1 position: (2498, 510)
[12:556.054] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: metalbarrel1 direction: 1 position: (2462, 514)
[12:556.057] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: metalbarrel1 direction: 1 position: (2462, 517)
[12:556.092] [Info] Protected dungeonIds for world set to (0)
[12:556.105] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: metalbarrel1 direction: 1 position: (2523, 570)
[12:556.107] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: metalbarrel1 direction: 1 position: (2317, 577)
[12:556.111] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: metalbarrel1 direction: 1 position: (2131, 582)
[12:556.130] [Warn] Failed to place dungeon object: metalbarrel1 direction: 0 position: (2332, 593)
[12:556.428] [Info] Placing dungeon gardengate
[12:556.592] [Info] Generating dungeon gardengate
[12:556.593] [Info] Placing dungeon at (778, 675)
[12:556.662] [Info] Protected dungeonIds for world set to (1)
[12:558.463] [Info] UniverseServer: Warping player 1 to InstanceWorldrotectorate77ff7b2ee9ea9b85147415eeef243a0:-
[12:559.133] [Info] UniverseServer: Loading client ship world ClientShipWorld77ff7b2ee9ea9b85147415eeef243a0
[12:559.481] [Info] UniverseServer: Arriving ship for player 1 at 305559742:808168916:-153016981:5
[12:559.512] [Info] UniverseServer: Stopping idle world CelestialWorld05559742:808168916:-153016981:5
[12:55:40.014] [Info] UniverseServer: Stopping idle world ClientShipWorld77ff7b2ee9ea9b85147415eeef243a0
[12:55:54.605] [Info] Clearing steam rich presence connection
[12:55:54.843] [Info] Root: Writing runtime configuration to '..\storage\starbound.config'
[12:55:58.900] [Info] Chat: <SAIL> To interact with a nearby person, door, or other object, you should hover over it with your cursor and press E, if you are awake enough to do so.
[12:56:14.900] [Info] Root: Writing runtime configuration to '..\storage\starbound.config'
[12:56:19.907] [Info] Root: Writing runtime configuration to '..\storage\starbound.config'
[12:566.566] [Info] Chat: <SAIL> Remember, you can open a door by hovering over it with your cursor and pressing E.
[12:568.345] [Info] UniverseClient: Client disconnecting...
[12:568.426] [Info] Client received world stop packet, leaving: Removed
[12:568.429] [Info] UniverseServer: Client 'Milka' <1> (local) disconnected for reason:
[12:568.430] [Info] UniverseServer: Stopping idle world InstanceWorldrotectorate77ff7b2ee9ea9b85147415eeef243a0:-
[12:569.214] [Info] UniverseServer: Stopping UniverseServer
[12:56:40.577] [Info] Application: quit requested
[12:56:40.577] [Info] Application: quitting...
[12:56:40.577] [Info] Application: shutdown...
[12:56:40.721] [Info] Root: Shutting down Root
[12:56:41.009] [Info] Application: Destroying SDL Window
[12:56:41.048] [Info] Application: stopped gracefully