First of all this is more or less my thoughts of marriage and dating before hand. Not necessarily suggestions but take what you want from it. I don't recall the name of the book but there is a book you collect for the museum that mentions dating once you give someone a bouquet. Yet, dating doesn't really happen at all. The closest thing to dating is the flower festival... Which, in my humble opinion isn't really enough. I think it would be nice to have a cut scene with that special someone after you give them a bouquet. Then once a month perhaps a date night with that special someone. I chose Sebastian for my first game and I wouldn't mind playing that game with him again, or going out one of those Friday nights and playing pool with him. After you do marry them I don't think they should completely change for you. Perhaps this stems from being married in rl for going on 15 years. But, and I am going to use Sebastian for this again, I don't believe Sebastian should completely give up his job. There are plenty of hours after he helps out that he just stands around that could be filled with him on the PC again. I'm not saying I want some of his income, although that would make sense. But if I asked for that then I also believe the other spouses should have employment elsewhere also. I wouldn't mind being able to interact with his game after married and get him to play with me occasionally. I would be happy for him to still go out with Sam on Friday nights and play pool. I have yet to celebrate the year mark of marriage but I do believe there should be something signifying the anniversary. As little as being given a special gift that day. To as big as having a date night.