As I stated earlier I planned on marrying Sam, which I did. Big mistake. In the 2 seasons I was with him he feed the cat once. Otherwise he just laid around the house and never did anything. He complained about missing his mom's cooking. So by the first week of winter I had enough and divorced him. Now I'm thinking of either Sebastian or Harvey. I've married Harvey in a different farm and he was the nicest NPC. He went to work most days, feed animals and kept the fences fixed and would make me breakfast quite often. Since Seb is an unknown I may go with him and see how long he lasts. I can always divorce him and then marry Harvey. I had Elliot as a husband on one farm and he was so boring and Alex is just not in the cards at all. When I have another spouse I will update this.