Server Discussion Looking to join a server!

Hello! I'm GeminiSol, but please call me Xystria because I really don't like the name of GeminiSol. I highly regret choosing that name, I wish I could change it. Anyways, i've owned Starbound for three years and i've never played online once, so I want to change that!

So now that Starbound has officially been released I really want to join a server and enjoy the game with other people, so can anyone suggest any servers to me? I'd prefer U.S/Canadian servers since I want the fastest connection to the server possible.

I'm looking for a server I can create a new character on since I doubt my Avali character would be available on most servers. And because it's the character I beat the game with, let alone did anything with. Unless there is a server I can have my Avali character in, but have to start anew. Or whatever. It doesn't matter to me.

PvP I don't really mind, so long as it doesn't involve destroying other players homes and or ship (if that's a thing for the ship). Griefing and what not happens, but for the most part I don't want intentional griefing that goes unpunished or whatever. I really dislike having to rebuild things knowing that it might get destroyed in the future. Or having all my things stolen off of my ship and or out of my home.

I also don't mind having to create an account for a server's website if I have to, as long as I can play on a server with other people!