Modding Help I have an error issue each time i try to use my sail when in a friends game

[Error] Exception caught in client main-loop
(AssetException) Error loading asset /interface/ai/aicustom.config

we both have A.V.I.A.N. as our Sails but when i try to access my SAIL or his in his game i get this error.
We both have the same mods and everything I have even tried using different species same thing
it first started when he was a Everis and was Avali but we tried it when we was both Avian and it gives me the same error and boots me to the main menu
https://pastebin.com/uFPgDu6Q

 

Not sure. Try uninstalling you sex-bound related mods, and see what happens.