Im not really sure how these things are formatted but after I married Abigail sure work on the farm got a little bit easier but it also wasnt as exciting as I had hoped. I think it would be cool if we could do some of the things our spouse enjoyed before getting married (e.g. adventures, playing Journey of the Prairie King, etc.) as well as maybe going mining with them. Im not really sure how that would work, maybe they would walk around mining with certain materials prioritized (diamond, amethyst, gold, iron, copper, you get the idea) at some set pace and at the end they would give you all of their resources once you decided to go back up. I think this would add a lot more excitement to marriage as well as add some life back into your spouse because marriage kind of takes everything away that made them unique.