I am on Year 2 spring and I am married to Maru. It won't let me dance with her at the Flower Dance. So when I ask Lewis to start the dance, she dances with Harvey!
Same thing. I guess I'll have to dance with Leah instead. I guess I'll keep bombarding Penny with gifts and maybe divorce with Maru later.
Do you have the most recent version? If you can I might recommend joining the beta for version 1.07 and see if that helps.
Interesting. The only two NPC's I had trouble with at the dance was Haley and Abigail with the latter no longer being an issue after marriage.
That happened to me one of the first years I was married, I ended up just letting my spouse dance the default dance cause truth be told I found the fact I didn't get to wear the outfit and just did a kind of awkward in-my-overalls stand in the time I did participate to be really jarring. Next year I was able to dance with them if I wanted to but I find the flower dance my least favorite event. I was really hoping to wear the silly suit or dress.
I have to assume you don't wear the suit/dress because it wouldn't necessarily mesh with where you are standing, since I know you can be female on the male side (less of an issue) and I can assume male on the female side (I don't consider this an issue, but I don't call the shots, obviously.)
Yeah. my very first play I was playing a dude and went for Harvey later on in the year so after the very first flower dance (where I got rejected hardcore) I had spent the entire year wondering what was going to happen when I asked Harvey to dance next year. I was "oh man...if its two guys dancing, do I get to wear the dress?? Will my fabulously handsome set of pixels in his dashing tiara dance in the flower dress??" And then no..it was just me dancing in the girl's side with my overalls looking like the biggest sore thumb ever. I was actually a little let down since I had spent an entire gameplay year mentally hyping up what was possibly going to happen.